This session emphasizes the importance of God being at the center of marriage for its longevity and strength. The speaker introduces Adam and Eve as the first example of partnering, highlighting that Eve was made from Adam's rib for "inseparable unity and fellowship of life with the man," not from dust like other creations. He points out that Adam willingly ate the forbidden fruit, not being deceived like Eve, but choosing to sin to stay with his bride, which is presented as a picture of Jesus' willingness to go to the cross for His bride, the church. The speaker notes that man often distorts the union of marriage, leading to women being viewed as property or subjected to abuse. He shares a personal vow against spousal abuse, witnessing its destructive effects. He then quotes Matthew Henry, stating Eve was made from Adam's side to be "equal with him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved by him".
Biblical examples of couples partnering in ministry are then explored:
• Abraham and Sarah (Genesis 18): Despite their "boneheaded" mistakes (Abraham giving Sarah away, Sarah giving Hagar to Abraham), they were a team that picked up and went wherever God led them. A specific instance is when they hosted the Lord and two angels; Abraham ran to serve, and Sarah quickly prepared a feast without question, demonstrating their immediate, joyful partnership in serving God and their guests. This service extended to ensuring each other's needs were met.
• Aquila and Priscilla (Acts 18, Romans 16, 1 Corinthians 16): This couple is described as inseparable equals, always together in scripture, sharing the same trade as tentmakers. They had a mature relationship, working closely under pressure, being best friends and companions, and were willing to give more than they took. They grew in Christ and their marriage through Paul's teaching, opening their home for Bible studies and serving the church faithfully. They discipled Apollos, patiently explaining "the way of God more accurately" to him. They serve as an example of a couple pouring their lives into ministry for the glory of the Lord, without seeking self-recognition.
The Pastor John Smith shares his own testimony of partnering with his wife, Brenda, moving to Wisconsin, opening their home for prayer meetings and Bible studies, and raising seven children, all while leaning on Christ. He emphasizes that his wife is his "comparable helper" and that "two are better than one" because they have a good reward in their labor, lifting each other up when one falls, as described in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12. The "threefold cord" of a couple with Jesus as the third string is crucial for overcoming anything the world throws at them, making their marriage more complete.
